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The Naked Roommate: For Parents Only: Calling, Not Calling, Roommates, Relationships, Friends, Finances, and Everything Else That Really Matters when Your ... Goes to College (Student Parenting Book)

by Harlan Cohen

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Living with roommates can be a great way to save money, make new friends, and have some fun. But it can also be a challenge, especially when it comes to communication.

One of the most common questions that roommates have is whether or not they should call each other. On the one hand, calling can be a great way to stay in touch and make plans. On the other hand, it can also be intrusive and annoying.

So, when should you call your roommates? And when should you avoid it?

When to Call Your Roommates

There are a few situations when it's definitely a good idea to call your roommates.

If you're going to be late. This is a common courtesy that everyone should follow. If you're going to be late for a shared meal, a meeting, or an appointment, call your roommates and let them know.
If you're going to be away for a while. If you're going to be out of town for a few days or weeks, call your roommates and let them know. This will give them time to make arrangements for your absence.
If you have an emergency. If you have a medical emergency, a financial emergency, or any other type of emergency, call your roommates immediately.

In addition to these specific situations, you may also want to call your roommates if you have something important to discuss, such as a change in your work schedule or a roommate agreement.

When to Avoid Calling Your Roommates

There are also a few situations when you should avoid calling your roommates.

If they're sleeping. This is a common sense rule that everyone should follow. If your roommates are sleeping, don't call them unless it's an emergency.
If they're in the middle of something. If your roommates are in the middle of a meeting, a class, or a work project, don't call them unless it's important.
If they've asked you not to call them. If your roommates have asked you not to call them, respect their wishes.

In general, it's best to err on the side of caution when it comes to calling your roommates. If you're not sure whether or not you should call them, it's probably best to send them a text message or email instead.

Relationships and Friendships

Living with roommates can be a great way to make new friends. But it can also be a challenge to maintain relationships with your roommates.

Here are a few tips for maintaining relationships with your roommates:

Be respectful. This means respecting your roommates' time, space, and belongings.
Be honest and open. If you have a problem with your roommates, talk to them about it in a respectful way.
Be willing to compromise. No one is perfect, so there will be times when you need to compromise with your roommates.
Have fun together. Spend some time getting to know your roommates and ng things that you enjoy together.

If you follow these tips, you can help to maintain positive relationships with your roommates.

Finances

Money can be a major source of conflict between roommates. Here are a few tips for managing finances with your roommates:

Create a budget. This will help you to track your income and expenses, and make sure that you're all contributing fairly to the household.
Divide the bills evenly. This is the fairest way to make sure that everyone is paying their share of the expenses.
Be open and honest about your financial situation. If you're having trouble paying your bills, talk to your roommates about it. They may be able to help you out.
Avoid borrowing money from your roommates. If you need to borrow money, ask a friend or family member instead.

If you follow these tips, you can help to avoid financial conflicts with your roommates.

Other Considerations

In addition to the tips above, here are a few other things to consider when living with roommates:

Be clean and tidy. This will help to keep the common areas of your home clean and comfortable for everyone.
Be respectful of your roommates' space. Don't go into their rooms without their permission, and don't borrow their things without asking.
Be quiet. If you're going to be loud, try to keep it to a minimum, especially late at night and early in the morning.
Be mindful of your guests. If you're going to have guests over, let your roommates know in advance. And make sure that your guests are respectful of the house and your roommates.

By following these tips, you can help to make living with roommates a positive experience for everyone involved.

Living with roommates can be a great way to save money, make new friends, and have some fun. But it's important to be mindful of your roommates' feelings and needs. By following the tips in this article, you can help to create a positive and respectful living environment.

The Naked Roommate: For Parents Only: Calling, Not Calling, Roommates, Relationships, Friends, Finances, and Everything Else That Really Matters when Your ... Goes to College (Student Parenting Book)

by Harlan Cohen

4.5 out of 5